I was in the front seat of his beat up maroon Subaru as we drove around Boulder. My older brother (by 7 years) was driving as we had the rare 1:1 time hanging out together. We were talking about what comes next, as most of my conversations had been about since I was graduating high school that year. He asked me "what do you want to do with your life? who do you want to be?" I thought about it, and answered as honest[...]